re458: The Win No One Sees (Fast Friday)

July 25, 2025 00:05:35
re458: The Win No One Sees (Fast Friday)
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re458: The Win No One Sees (Fast Friday)

Jul 25 2025 | 00:05:35

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Bradley Charbonneau

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The party is beautiful, but the practice is powerful. 500 is the milestone they see. But 501? That’s the win no one sees—and the one that changes everything.
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[00:00:02] The method is the magic. [00:00:06] Why 501 is more powerful than 500. [00:00:12] Hey, it's Bradley Schrobineau. It's early. [00:00:16] And welcome to Fast Friday. [00:00:19] This week was big. [00:00:21] Three of my closest friends came to visit. Three German attorneys I've known for decades. [00:00:27] We biked through Dutch streets, boated through canals, drank wine, and more importantly, Franziskanner Heiferweizen. We talked deeply, we laughed hard and reconnected in the way only old friends can. [00:00:45] It was a celebration, a gathering that reminds you this is why you do the work in the first place. [00:00:54] It was Kairos time. [00:00:56] Those sacred, unscheduled moments of magic. And then yesterday, they left. [00:01:04] And last night, I didn't celebrate with one more round. I didn't eat dinner. I fasted. [00:01:14] And this morning, I meditated. [00:01:17] Day 501. [00:01:21] Now, yesterday was 500. A shiny number, a finish line moment, the kind of thing you share. [00:01:29] But today. [00:01:30] Today is quiet. [00:01:32] Today is personal. [00:01:34] Today is mine. [00:01:37] And I realized something while I sat in silence. [00:01:41] This is the moment that matters. [00:01:44] Because 500 is for the crowd. [00:01:47] But 501, that's for you. [00:01:51] That's the day you keep going. [00:01:54] Not because of a streak, but because of a standard. [00:01:58] Not for applause, but for alignment. [00:02:03] And let me tell you, after skipping dinner last night, I slept better. I woke up energized. I feel lighter, clearer, more alive. [00:02:14] And I love food. I love good wine. [00:02:19] And I especially love Franziskaner Heiferweizen with German friends in a Dutch harbor in the summertime. [00:02:28] That's Kairos. [00:02:31] But this. [00:02:32] This Friday morning, this fast Friday is Kronos. [00:02:39] And here's the thing. We live most of our lives in Kronos time. It's not a bad thing. It just means we need to learn how to make the regular days feel meaningful. [00:02:52] So how do we do that? [00:02:56] The method is the magic. [00:03:01] The method is. Is the magic. [00:03:07] The party is beautiful, but the practice is powerful. [00:03:11] The celebration is fun, but the consistency is transformative. [00:03:19] It's not the number that matters. It's what the number represents. [00:03:25] And that brings me to one of my favorite scenes in the Shawshank Redemption. [00:03:31] Andy Dufresne writes one letter a week to the state asking for books to build a prison library. [00:03:39] One letter every week for years. [00:03:43] Eventually, the books arrive. [00:03:46] Brooksie says, now you can stop writing a letter every week. [00:03:51] And Andy replies, now I'll write two letters a week. [00:03:58] Because he wasn't just trying to get something. [00:04:01] He was becoming someone different, becoming someone bigger. And when he reached the milestone he didn't stop. [00:04:13] He leveled up. [00:04:15] That's what 501 is. [00:04:18] It's the day after the party. It's the next letter. It's the quiet continuation of who you've decided to become. [00:04:32] So here's my Fast Friday challenge to you. [00:04:36] When the friends go home, when the plates are cleared and the posts are published, what do you do? [00:04:45] Who will you be next? [00:04:50] Do you stop? [00:04:51] Or do you sit down, breathe in and say, now I'll write two letters a week. [00:04:59] I'm Bradley Charbonneau. [00:05:02] This is Fast Friday, and tomorrow that will be day 502. [00:05:10] Because the method is the magic.

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