re418: Confidence: The Decision That Changes Everything

March 06, 2025 00:05:01
re418: Confidence: The Decision That Changes Everything
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re418: Confidence: The Decision That Changes Everything

Mar 06 2025 | 00:05:01

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Hosted By

Bradley Charbonneau

Show Notes

What if confidence wasn’t something you waited for… but something you chose?

Have you ever felt like you were standing on the edge of something big—something calling you forward—but instead of stepping into it… you hesitated?

Maybe you told yourself:

I’m not ready yet.

I need more experience.

I need more time.

But what if confidence isn’t something you find?

What if it’s something you build—one decision at a time?

In today’s episode, we’re going deeper—not just into the idea of confidence, but into the energy of it. Because confidence isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about trusting yourself enough to take the first step… even before you feel ready.

We’ll talk about:

? Why confidence isn’t something you earn—it’s something you step into.

? The power of taking imperfect action and why it rewires your brain.

? A simple mindset shift that will break through hesitation instantly.

? What I’ve learned from watching people take one small, playful step… and transform their entire lives.

If you’ve been waiting for a sign, this is it.

You’re not just ready—you were always ready.

? Grab a quiet moment, take a deep breath, and let’s talk about what happens when you choose confidence.

After you listen, I’d love to hear from you—what’s one action you’re committing to today? Send me a message or share your thoughts in the comments!

[ https://youtu.be/fAQLVEQPiGA ]

Thanks to to Mubert Render #mubert (https://mubert.com/render) for the music!

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Episode Transcript

[00:00:00] There's a moment right before we take action where everything hangs in the balance. A split second where we either move forward or hesitate at that moment. Confidence isn't something we have. [00:00:14] It's something we choose. [00:00:18] Bradley Charbonneau here in Thursday Thunder. Here we go. Confidence, the first decision. [00:00:25] Have you ever stood at a crossroads knowing you should take action but hesitate? You tell yourself, I'll start soon. I just need more time. I need more information, more experience, more confidence. [00:00:41] And while you wait, someone else steps forward. [00:00:46] Not because they're better than you, not because they know more than you, but because they made a decision. [00:00:54] A decision to act. [00:00:57] And that decision, it changes everything. [00:01:02] Now, here's the funny thing about confidence. Most people think confidence comes after success. [00:01:10] I'll be confident once I have the job. [00:01:13] I'll be confident once I have more money. [00:01:17] I'll be confident once someone else believes in me. [00:01:21] But confidence doesn't work like that. Confidence isn't something you get. [00:01:28] Confidence is something you decide. [00:01:32] And the very first decision you need to make to take action. [00:01:38] Because the moment you commit, fully commit, with no turning back, confidence starts to build. [00:01:48] Let me tell you about someone. Let's call her Lisa. Lisa had always wanted to be a writer. But every time she sat down to write, she froze. She wanted it to be perfect. She wanted it to be good. So instead, she did nothing. [00:02:08] Until one day, she made a different decision. [00:02:12] She signed up for a challenge. To write her worst book ever. Not her best book, not her perfect book, her worst book. [00:02:23] And here's what happened. [00:02:25] She finished it. [00:02:26] She built momentum. And for the first time, she realized it was never about the book. [00:02:35] It was about the decision. [00:02:38] The decision to start, the decision to commit, the decision to follow through. [00:02:44] And with every decision she made after that, she got stronger. She got bolder. She got more confident. [00:02:54] Because confidence isn't built in theory. [00:02:58] It's built in action. [00:03:02] And once you prove to yourself that you can take action, that you can start and can finish, you stop hesitating. You start making decisions. Bigger ones, bolder ones. Because now you're unstoppable. [00:03:20] But what if you don't? What if a year from now, you're still standing at the crossroads, still asking yourself, now what? [00:03:31] What if you keep waiting for confidence instead of deciding to build it? [00:03:38] Because let me tell you, no one is coming to hand you confidence. You have to choose it. [00:03:46] And the way you do that, you act. [00:03:51] Confidence isn't built in the shadows. It's built in the light. It's built when you hit publish, when you take the stage when you dare to say, I am doing this. [00:04:06] And when you do everything else, the job, the success, the money, the relationships, they follow. Because you didn't wait to be confident. You decided to be. [00:04:22] So here's my challenge to you. [00:04:25] Make the decision, take the action. [00:04:29] It doesn't have to be perfect. It doesn't even have to be good. It just has to be done. And when it is, confidence will follow. [00:04:44] Now go decide. [00:04:48] Start, finish, and build the confidence that will shape your future.

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